My Aunt Rita is a tough bird. She is the bluntest aunt that I have. She at correctional facility. She believes in in-dependency, and someone grown should never need any help. For example, one of her daughters struggles with her bills, but she never asks my Aunt Rita. Usually, she will ask my mom or my Aunt Yvonne for the money. On the other hand, when if I need something she always tells me she will help me, but I never ask. Yes, she wants everyone including me to do right, but she just uses harsh love. She always encourages me because she knows no matter what I am going to get my stuff done. Also, I try not to depend on anyone if I can do it myself. She respects me more because I am responsible.